Still single?? 10 Reasons Why You Haven't. Found the Right One.

Still Single? 10 Reasons You
Haven’t Found ‘The One’
Wondering why you haven’t met the
one? You might be making any of
these mistakes.
1. Unrealistic Expectations
When a client shows up with a list of
the 100+ extremely specific qualities
(type of car someone drives, their shoe
size, if they wear aftershave) that their
date must have, I know we’re going to
have a problem. To be a successful
dater, you have to be open! If you count
out every person who does not
measure up on paper, you are probably
missing out on someone truly
wonderful. Be open — you never know
where or when you will meet your
match.
2. Workaholic Lifestyle
If you barely have time to eat dinner
alone, how do you expect to find time
to go out on a date and enjoy yourself?
When someone spends more time and
energy on their work than on their
personal life, of course they have
trouble dating. Finding a balance is
key.
3. History Of Unwise Partner Choices
One of the first conversations I have
with a client is about their dating
history. When each person they
mention falls into a dangerous category
like “bad boy” or “party girl”, it’s easy to
see why they may have been having
trouble finding a relationship that
sticks.
4. Social Awkward/Shy Personality
Many people are not comfortable in
social situations, which is okay. But the
only way to become more comfortable
is to dive right in. You only live once!
5. Limited Access To Potential
Partners
When someone’s group of friends are
all married or coupled, or they have a
job that requires they work from home,
it poses an understandable dating
challenge. This challenge also crops
up among singles that live in small
towns or rural areas.
6. History Of Choosing Unavailable
Partners
Constantly choosing a partner who is
emotionally or physically distant makes
it hard for any relationship to last. Long
distance dating is not for everyone.
7. Being Stuck On The Idea Of
Marriage
Rather than going out and having fun
and exploring a new date’s
uniqueness, this person tends to be
hung up on the prospect of a potential
marriage. When you spend your first
date wondering if someone is marriage
material, you miss your chance to get
to know them. It can take time to learn if
someone is really right for you.
8. Old Fashioned Dater/Out Of The
Dating Loop
This issue comes up a lot for people
who are newly divorced, separated or
widowed. When you’ve been off the
dating scene for a while, it’s hard to
find a way back in. What worked in the
past may not work now, so a new
dating strategy has to be devised.
9. Hung Up On Comparing New With
The Old
It’s natural to compare the new people
you’re dating to someone you’ve been
with before, especially if you were with
that person for a long time, and were
happy. However, this comparison will
only prevent you from getting to know
another partner. No two people are
exactly the same, and no two
relationships will be, either. Often,
someone new might have positive
attributes you had not experienced
before.
10. Overall negative outlook
If you think you’ll never find someone,
you’ll make that your reality. If you
open your mind, heart, and eyes, there
are amazing possibilities all around
you! Be open and walk around with a
smile; you never know where or when
you will meet your match.

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